This article was written by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. This article has been viewed 69,823 times.
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Be open and honest with each other.
- If you don't prioritize him or you constantly cancel plans, he'll be much less likely to admit that he likes you. Show him that you like him with your actions.
- Be a good listener, too. When he talks, make eye contact with him and nod along so he knows you're listening.
- Call him by his name or give him a complimentary nickname. When you address your date by his name, you're sending the message that you notice him and that he's important to you, says Kirschner. ...
- Ask open-ended questions. ...
- Play the damsel in (slight) distress. ...
- Compliment him. ...
- Find something you have in common...
How to Get a Shy Guy to Chase You: 10 Ways to Get Him Interested
- Make eye contact with him.
- Mirror his body language.
- Say his name when you talk to him.
- Add an element of mystery to your interactions.
- Spend time where he likes to hang out.
- Compliment him.
- Flirt a little.
- Get a little closer to him.
Ask him in a charming and cute way if he likes you.
If you can't get him to confess how he feels, no harm will come to you if you just ask him directly! If he's being shy about confessing his feelings, then be honest and tell him you like him. It may cause him to reveal his undying devotion to you.
How do you initiate intimacy with a shy guy? ›
If you're laughing at a joke, touch him on the upper arm. If he just told you a sweet story, grab his hand briefly. The more you can touch him, the better he'll feel about making a move on you. You could also try giving him a hug or rubbing his back.
What makes a shy guy attractive? ›
Many girls are totally into shy guys, and are attracted to them for their quiet mystery and thoughtful nature. Girls also like shy guys because they tend to form deeper and more loyal bonds, and getting to know them over long periods is super rewarding.
Do shy guys stalk their crush? ›
Do shy guys stalk their crush? Shy guys prefer to stay under the radar, so they're most likely to stalk you online or in real life rather than approach you in public. This is a more comfortable approach for them, as it reduces the possibility of being ignored, rejected, or embarrassed.
How do you make a shy guy miss you? ›
10 proven ways to make a guy miss you
- Deliberately leave things behind. ...
- Give him some personal space. ...
- Make him wait before replying his texts. ...
- Take things slow. ...
- Wear a unique perfume. ...
- Add some mystery to your experiences together. ...
- Have adventures with him (and your friends)
Studies show that introverted or shy men are likely to be attracted to both shy and outgoing women, while extroverted men may have a preference for outgoing women.
How do you tell a shy guy you want him? ›
You can tell him face-to-face, but make sure that you do it when you two are alone, and well out of sight of any of his or your friends. When you tell him, try to keep it casual. If you're not certain that he likes you, or you're afraid he will get embarrassed, you can make it light-hearted and easy.
Make the guy feel comfortable about exchanging glances and looking at you frequently. Stare at him often, and as soon as you catch his eye, look away and smile to yourself. Displaying your shy side will make him feel more comfortable with the idea of talking to you.
How to tell a guy likes you but is hiding it? ›
Here are 10 common signs that someone likes you but is hiding it.
- They may act a bit awkward around you. ...
- They compliment you often. ...
- They get a little jealous. ...
- They ask questions. ...
- They remember the details. ...
- They want to spend time with you. ...
- They listen. ...
- They lean in when you talk.
How to Find Out if a Guy Secretly Likes You
- 1 He makes eye contact with you.
- 2 He smiles when he sees you.
- 3 He checks you out when you're not looking.
- 4 He leans in when you talk.
- 5 He mirrors your movements.
- 6 He brushes up against you.
- 7 He seems nervous or awkward.
- 8 He talks to you every day.
It takes men an average of 108 days (about 4 months) to confess love and women an average of around 123 days (about 4 months). Research further indicated that both men and women initially begin to think of confessing their love approximately 2 to 2.5 months before doing so.
Why won't a guy admit his feelings? ›
Men may feel vulnerable when loving someone if their heart has been broken before, and they might not easily admit their feelings, perhaps particularly if they are strong feelings. They could be afraid of facing rejection from another individual, which could be a positive sign that they care about the relationship.
How do you admit to a guy you like him? ›
Here are some of the best ways to let him know you like him:
- Tell him.
- Ask him out.
- Flirt with him.
- Include him in your activities.
- Invite him along with your friends.
- Compliment him.
- Spend time getting to know him.
- Make him feel needed (and appreciated!)
