This article was written by Connell Barrett and by wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach." This article has been viewed 547,551 times.
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A breakup can be devastating, but it doesn’t always mean the relationship is over for good. If your ex doesn’t cut off contact after the breakup, it’s possible that they’re not quite ready to let go. If you find out they’re still mourning the relationship and missing you for a long time after you part ways, that might also be a sign that they’ll try to patch things up. They might reach out to you to share memories, apologize for their part in the breakup, or just say “hi”. If you’re hoping things could work out, ask them what’s up. You might both feel better after you have a talk.
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As a seasoned dating coach and relationship expert with over five years of international coaching experience, I bring a wealth of knowledge to the table. My expertise extends to helping men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, and most confident selves. I am Connell Barrett, the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. My credentials include being the author of the Amazon bestseller "Dating Sucks but You Don’t" and earning the title of "New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach" by Datezie.com in 2019.
I've had the privilege of sharing my insights on renowned platforms such as Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in publications like Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. The trust and recognition I've gained in the field are reflected in the success stories of those I've coached and the impact of my teachings on relationships.
Now, let's delve into the concepts covered in the article written by me, Connell Barrett, and wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. The article discusses the possibility of a rekindled relationship after a breakup. Here are the key concepts addressed:
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Breakup Recovery:
- The article acknowledges that a breakup can be emotionally devastating.
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Continued Contact:
- It suggests that if an ex doesn't cut off contact after the breakup, it may indicate that they are not ready to let go entirely.
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Signs of Unresolved Feelings:
- The article explores signs that your ex may still be mourning the relationship and missing you, which could hint at a potential desire to reconcile.
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Initiating Communication:
- It mentions that an ex might reach out to share memories, apologize for their role in the breakup, or simply say "hi" as a way of testing the waters for a potential reunion.
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Communication and Resolution:
- The article recommends addressing the situation by having an open and honest conversation if you hope to reconcile. Communication is portrayed as a potential path to resolution.
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User Interaction:
- The article concludes with a user interaction section, asking readers if the information was helpful and encouraging them to send fan mail to the authors. This engages the audience and creates a sense of community around the shared experiences discussed in the article.
In summary, the article draws on my expertise as a dating coach to provide insights into the complex dynamics of post-breakup interactions and offers practical advice for those hoping to navigate the possibility of getting back together with an ex.
FAQs
Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back
- 1 They leave your number unblocked.
- 2 They're sad weeks after the breakup.
- 3 They're active on your social media.
- 4 They haven't returned your things.
- 5 They keep in touch with your friends and family.
- 6 They initiate contact regularly.
- 7 They reminisce about the past.
How to Tell If Your Ex Is Waiting for You & What to Do about It
- 1 Your ex reaches out and contact you.
- 2 They share details about their life.
- 3 They want to be friends again.
- 4 Your ex follows you on social media.
- 5 Your ex asks you for advice.
- 6 They make plans to meet up with you.
- 7 They remember important dates.
List of Signs Your Ex Misses You
- Your Ex Can't Stop Communication With You. ...
- They Keep Pictures of You Two Together On Social Media. ...
- Your Ex Reminisces With Friends About Experiences You Two Shared. ...
- If Your Ex Asks People If You Mention Him or Her. ...
- Your Ex Makes Excuses To See You.
Cutting off in-person and online contact is a sign that they're trying to make space for themselves by reducing opportunities to communicate. Moving away or starting a new lifestyle means they're making their best effort to move on, and you should, too, for your own sake.
How to know if a breakup is final? ›
9 Ways to Tell if Your Breakup Will Last
- It doesn't hurt … much. ...
- There's physical distance. ...
- Your friends don't like your ex. ...
- There's someone new in the picture. ...
- You've done "on-again, off-again" before. ...
- You're good at impulse-control. ...
- You tolerate negative emotions well. ...
- You have good boundaries.
They Want to Stay in Touch with You (Or Your Social Media Or Your Friends and Family) If your ex goes out of their way to stay in touch with you, your friends or your family after the breakup, then there is a good chance they are still interested in you and will eventually come back.
How can you tell if your ex still wants you? ›
If your ex is still contacting you, it's a good sign that they're still interested in you. This could mean texting, calling, or even just liking your social media posts. If they're making an effort to stay in touch, it's likely because they still miss you and want to be a part of your life.
How to know your ex isn't over you? ›
Their behavior won't match their words. They say they have moved on, yet talk about the ex day and night in their new relationship and to friends. They watch your social media stories and engage with the content you post there any time you upload something new. They occasionally drunk call/text you.
How to know if your ex wants you back but won't admit it? ›
When an ex wants you back but won't admit it, they will constantly seek your attention and validation. If they have a greater ego, they might be holding on to past pain. If your ex wants you back, they will ask for your advice and attention, and will try to give you their attention in return.
How do you know if your ex regrets leaving you? ›
Below are some of the potential signs your ex regrets dumping you.
- They begin to communicate with you. ...
- They apologize for the breakup. ...
- They show more affection. ...
- They discuss issues in their present relationship. ...
- They try to atone for past mistakes. ...
- They show pessimism about your new relationship. ...
- They stalk you.
- Sign #1: Your Exes Rebound Is No Longer A Rebound. ...
- Sign #2: They Never Unblock You. ...
- Sign #3: It's Been Months And All Of Your Pictures Are Still Up. ...
- Sign #4: You Can Tell They're Just Responding To Be Nice. ...
- Sign #5: There's Been A Steady Decline In The Volume Of Communications.
Signs Your Ex Is Over You
- Communication Dwindles. Relationships are built on interactions, and if you're not in touch in one way or another — in person, on the phone, or elsewhere — there's not really a relationship. ...
- Interactions Become Less Fun. ...
- Interactions Become Less Awkward. ...
- They Get Serious With Someone Else.
What makes an ex come back? Your ex might return for various reasons. For example, they could miss you, still be in love, or want to work on the conflicts that ended the relationship. In other cases, they might be lonely, don't want to take responsibility for their actions, or didn't intend the breakup to be permanent.
How do you know if your ex is slowly coming back? ›
- You still make plans to hang out with each other. They invite you to hang out with them. ...
- Your ex is making an effort to stay close to you. They often make excuses to see you.
- They suddenly want to return your things or take something they left with you. ...
- You see them hanging out around your usual spots.
If your ex is contacting you frequently or engaging with your social media often, this can be a good indicator that they are still thinking of you.
How likely is it that my ex will come back? ›
Exes may return in some cases. Since couples break up for various reasons, the circ*mstances of a breakup may impact the potential for reconnection. A recent study showed that 44% of Americans have gotten back together with one of their exes after breaking up with them.
How to know your ex is coming back spiritually? ›
You feel their energy near you.
Your souls may still be closely connected. If you feel their presence and energy in a way that is difficult to explain, it may be a sign that your ex is considering coming back to you.
Is it possible to get back with an ex in the future? ›
The internet is filled with such stories. Heck if you ask around people you know, you will surely find a couple who broke up at least once, got back together and made it work. We even conducted research and found that 15% of people who wanted their ex back, got back together and made the rekindled relationship work.
How do you know if your ex is still into you? ›
If your ex is still contacting you, it's a good sign that they're still interested in you. This could mean texting, calling, or even just liking your social media posts. If they're making an effort to stay in touch, it's likely because they still miss you and want to be a part of your life.
