Cash, Overspending, and ADHD (2024)

Credit Card Debt and a Late-Adulthood ADHD Diagnosis

“I have to really remind myself this is not something to feel ashamed about – it’s just about finding ways of making financial things easier and more approachable for people like me.” – Hannah Crawford, theater producer living with ADHD.

I racked up a credit card balance to cover expenses while I lived in New York City to pursue a Ph.D. I thought carrying credit card debt balances made sense, as I would pay them off when I had a job. However, it took two years to pay off my credit card balances. Then, I learned to track my expenses, left my credit cards at home, and only carried cashMoney in physical form such as banknotes and coins. More when going out, facilitating budgeting.

Those habits have stuck with me since. Credit cards are easy to use, but they make it easier for all consumers to spend more moneyFrom the Latin word moneta, nickname that was given by Romans to the goddess Juno because there was a minting workshop next to her temple. Money is any item that is generally accepted as payment for goods and services and repayment of debts, such as taxes, in a particular region, country or socio-economic context. Its onset dates back to the origins of humanity and its physical representation has taken on very varied forms until the appearance of metal coins. The banknote, a typical representati... More than when they pay with cash. I did not grasp how easily I accumulated credit card debt until I recently received a diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

People with ADHD “can seem restless, may have trouble concentrating and may act on impulse,” says the U.K. National Health Service (NHS). ADHD is a condition that impacts organizational skills and executive functions such as learning, attention, memory, and self-control, manifesting in impulsivity, inattention, procrastination, and hyperactivity. The number of ADHD diagnoses in adults has grown as awareness has increased in recent years.

ADHD and Impulse Spending

“In ADHD, people tend to make slapdash decisions which often leads to overspending.” – Dave Coghill, University of Melbourne.

My diagnosis has shed light on how ADHD impacted my financial well-being. People with ADHD often have difficulties budgeting and paying bills, as we prefer smaller and immediate rewards over larger and delayed rewards (excessive delay discounting or hyperbolic discounting in behavioral finance).

People with ADHD and individuals with “financial trauma” often engage in impulse spending as purchases increase the production of the neurotransmitter dopamine, hampering self-control. “Financial trauma” refers to intense anxiety and negative thoughts caused by past and current financial insecurity and economic crises.

ADHD symptoms correlate directly with credit card balances carried, late credit card payments, and use of pawn services (Beauchaine, Ben-David, Sela 2017). Individuals with severe ADHD symptoms during childhood are more likely to have difficulty paying bills and to be delinquent on bill payments, causing financial distress in adulthood (Liao 2021).

ADHD and Financial Habits

The ADHD tax “is ‘the price you pay for costly mistakes due to symptoms of ADHD’ and can include parking tickets, high-interest credit card debt, a low credit score, excessive spending on high dopamine foods, and last-minute taxi bookings.” – Eleanor Noyce, The Independent

Last year, the digital bank Monzo commissioned YouGov to survey the financial habits of 506 U.K. adults living with ADHD and 2,068 adults without an ADHD diagnosis. The survey showed that individuals with ADHD are twice as likely to experience financial anxiety as those without a diagnosis (see Chart 1).

Chart 1. United Kingdom: Financial Habits and ADHD, 2020

Sources: The Guardian (2022), Monzo (2022).

  • Two-thirds (65%) of diagnosed respondents said ADHD makes managing finances more difficult due to impulse purchases (58%), difficulties in maintaining a budget (51%), and struggling to save money (49%).
  • Most individuals with ADHD (60%) estimated that, on average, impulse spending and forgetfulness cost them ₤1,600 per year.
  • More women (72%) reported ADHD affected their finances compared to men (56%). ADHD costs women ₤200 more per year than men (₤1,695 compared to ₤1,494).
  • A small minority (19%) thought their banks gave them enough tools to manage their finances.

Cash Helps Controlling Impulse Spending

“When all your banking is online and you don’t use cash, it can really build up and cause a lot of problems.” – Hannah, 31, diagnosed with ADHD in 2020.

Many people with ADHD recommend using cash and forgoing paying with credit cards altogether:

  • Testimonies collected by ADDitude magazine evidence this: “I use only cash to purchase things,” said Marilyn from Illinois. Renate from Colorado recommends “cutting up credit cards,” and Linda from Pennsylvania “wrote the word ‘think’ on [her] credit card in permanent ink.”
  • Financial planner David DeWitt recommends people with ADHD pay down their credit card balances and stop incurring debt. “Cut up your cards. Lock them away. Freeze them, literally. Take all your cards off all of the sites that you buy things from. Yes, even your Apple Wallet.” DeWitt recommends using only debit cards and cash for at least three months” as a “weaning period” to avoid spending more and getting into debt.
  • “Think about leaving your credit and debit cards and checkbook at home, or only bring the minimum amount of [physical] money you’ll need,” recommends CHADD, a U.S. charity. People with ADHD should store their credit cards at home, freeze them to act against the urge to use them and cancel all but one for emergencies.
  • Erica Sandberg from Creditcards.com recommends carrying cash and opting for prepaid cards instead of credit cards: “Try withdrawing the amount you need for the week to establish a cash-only habit. Incorporate charging only when you feel comfortable living and spending within that sum.”
  • WebMD recommends “cancelling all but one [credit] card” to simplify bills. “Credit cards make it easy to spend money impulsively. If you have access to cash, use that instead of relying on your credit card. Try withdrawing a set amount of cash for weekly spending. Meanwhile, you can store your credit cards in a safeSecure container for storing money and valuables, with high resistance to breaking and entering. More, difficult-to-reach place. You might consider asking a trusted partner or friend to hold onto them.”

My ADHD diagnosis has reinforced my use of cash in daily payments. Cash helps me control my expenses, as it prevents me from overspending. If anything, my diagnosis has reinforced my conviction that preserving cash is critical to ensure my basic right to financial well-being in a world where digital payments proliferate.

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Cash, Overspending, and ADHD (2024)

FAQs

Is overspending related to ADHD? ›

People with ADHD and individuals with “financial trauma” often engage in impulse spending as purchases increase the production of the neurotransmitter dopamine, hampering self-control. “Financial trauma” refers to intense anxiety and negative thoughts caused by past and current financial insecurity and economic crises.

Do people with ADHD struggle with money? ›

Many ADHDers struggle with saving money. However, some ADHDers are good at money management because of the tools and strategies they use to track their expenses, set budgets, and plan for the future.

How to stop spending money when you have ADHD? ›

Here are some helpful tips.
  1. Become Aware of Your Spending Habits. ...
  2. Create a Budget. ...
  3. Make Shopping Lists. ...
  4. Use Cash Only – and Carry Cash in Small Bills. ...
  5. Don't Buy Anything in the Checkout Lane. ...
  6. Keep Tags on Purchases. ...
  7. Give Yourself an Allowance. ...
  8. Take Someone With You When You Shop.
Mar 27, 2023

Is compulsive spending a symptom of ADHD? ›

Impulsivity is one of the major symptoms of ADHD, so it is not uncommon for those with ADHD to buy first and think later. Sure, impulsive spending may leave you with the challenge of storing all of your new purchases. But the real issue is that it can quickly lead you down the path to debt.

What mental illness causes overspending? ›

During a manic episode, many people with bipolar disorder tend to make poor financial decisions – overspending, impulsive buying, or excessive generosity. Not only do these decisions lead to harsh financial consequences, but they can also leave you feeling guilty and remorseful, and put a strain on your loved ones.

What are manipulative behaviors of ADHD? ›

possible ADHD symptoms or behaviors that may seem manipulative: disrespectful behavior. ADHD stimming. talking over another or interrupting.

What subject do people with ADHD struggle with the most? ›

Nearly a third of children with ADHD also have a math learning disability.

Why is living with ADHD so hard? ›

The brain is often racing, and people with ADHD experience the world in a way that others don't easily understand or relate to. Overwhelmed, secretly or overtly, by the constant stress caused by ADHD symptoms. Keeping daily life under control takes much more work than others realize.

Do millionaires have ADHD? ›

Those who do succeed tend to have above-average intelligence with mild to moderate ADHD and learning disorders, he says. Hardworking and creative, they typically join the ranks of wealth through entrepreneurial success, he says.

How to stop spending money for dopamine? ›

If impulse buying feels like a vicious cycle of emotional highs and lows, that's because it is.
  1. Dopamine: The “feel good” hormone. ...
  2. Emotional motivations of impulse buying. ...
  3. Buyer's remorse. ...
  4. Tip 1: Create a spending plan. ...
  5. Tip 2: Cut advertising noise. ...
  6. Tip 3: Be body conscious. ...
  7. Tip 4: Wait out unplanned purchases.

How to stop impulsive overspending? ›

5 ways to stop overspending on impulse buys
  1. Get to the bottom of your impulse spending habit. ...
  2. Include discretionary spending in your budget. ...
  3. Consider your payment method for discretionary expenses. ...
  4. Set rules for extraneous spending. ...
  5. Give yourself a break.
Feb 16, 2023

How do I stop spending money compulsively? ›

Nine ways to tackle compulsive spending
  1. Get to know your spending triggers. ...
  2. Track your spending. ...
  3. Work out your reasons for buying something. ...
  4. Control how you use your card. ...
  5. Avoid temptation. ...
  6. Get your retail highs another way. ...
  7. Set a realistic budget. ...
  8. Get help from a friend.

Is overspending a symptom of ADHD? ›

Adults with ADHD are prone to overspending, especially during the holidays. Willpower alone can't stop it.

Do people with ADHD worry about money? ›

"People with ADHD are more likely to go into debt, impulsively spend and argue about money with their partner or spouse," leading expert in ADHD and money management Dr Stephanie Moulton Sarkis says. In her practice in Florida, Dr Sarkis coaches adults with ADHD on a daily basis to better manage their bank accounts.

Why am I so impulsive with my money? ›

If you're feeling low or depressed, you may lack motivation to manage your finances. It might not feel worth trying. Spending may give you a brief high, so you might overspend to feel better. You might make impulsive financial decisions when you're experiencing mania or hypomania.

Are people with ADHD prone to overeating? ›

ADHD can contribute to eating disorders

Researchers noted increased brain activity in the participants with high ADHD symptoms when they looked at pictures of food. The researchers concluded this heightened brain response may be why having ADHD includes an increased risk of also having a binge eating disorder.

What is the psychology behind overspending? ›

Overspending can happen for different reasons, such as: You might spend to make yourself feel better. Some people describe this as feeling like a temporary high. If you experience symptoms like mania or hypomania, you might spend more money or make impulsive financial decisions.

Do people with ADHD have trouble counting money? ›

ADHD doesn't make it hard to understand math or work with money. But it can make it difficult to manage money.

Do people with ADHD overcompensate? ›

ADHD masking is also called camouflaging or impression management. It involves hiding symptoms or overcompensating for them.

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