How to calm anxiety quickly (2024)

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Anxiety is a set of symptoms and feelings that everyone experiences from time-to-time. The sense of tension, nervousness and apprehension is our body’s response to a perceived threat, and can occur in anything from arguing with loved ones to worrying over a job interview.

As anxiety rises within our bodies, the idea of calming down can feel near impossible. Our emotions can seem out of control, but there are techniques that you can learn, practise and use to provide you with instant relief from anxiety, helping you to remain calm in stressful situations.

How can I quickly calm my anxiety?

Try these quick and easy techniques if you feel a rush of anxiety building inside you:

1. Accept your anxiety

It might seem counter-intuitive, but sometimes the best thing we can do is accept how we feel and allow it to take its course. Feelings of anxiety are normal and natural; by accepting what’s happening to us we can help to usher our anxiety on faster than we would if we fought it.

Plus, if every time you’re anxious or stressed you try to avoid these feelings, you’ll always be fearful of anxiety creeping up on you – which can often lead to a more intense panic attack. Learning to accept the realities of how we feel can be a positive first step in dealing with anxiety.

2.Avoid stimulants like coffee and alcohol

Caffeine and alcohol can often have the opposite effect to what you might think. Coffee for example has been proven to induce more anxiety – especially when drunk in high doses (source). Alcohol can, on the face of it, help us to calm down if we’re feeling anxious. However, over time alcohol and anxietydon't pair well together and will worsen any symptoms of anxiety you're currently experiencing.

3.Adopt some relaxation techniques

When you feel anxious, your breathing becomes rapid and shallow and you muscle tighten. This can impact your body by increasing your heart rate and bringing about light-headedness, nausea and sweating, among otherphysical symptoms of anxiety.

There are plenty ofrelaxation exercises to help reduce anxiety. These focus your breathing and identify areas of tension in your body which you can then release.

Here's a simple breathing exercise that anyone can pick up in the moment to help calm anxiety:

4. Distract yourself

Whenever you're experiencing anxious thoughts, doing something that ‘fills your mind’ and needs complete focus can be a good distraction.

Small things like leaving the room orgoing outside can be effective. One other technique that some people use when calming their anxiety is counting backwards.

When trying out this technique, find a quiet place, close your eyes and count backwards until you feel your anxiety subside. If you don’t find that this helps, try something a little more complicated, like counting back from 100 in 3s. For many people, they find that they can’t continue to worry when they are focused on subtracting the numbers.

This is a technique you can then use to calm your anxiety when you’re out and about.

Changing focus can be especially effective if you’reexperiencing anxiety at night. Sitting in bed ruminating about what’s making us anxious will only prolong our feelings. Get out of bed and distract yourself.Here are some more tips onhow to stop ruminating.

5. Visualise peacefulness

Visualisation brings together aspects of mindfulness and breathing techniques to give you another way to calm yourself down and stop anxiety from spiralling out of control.

One example is the 5,4,3,2,1 technique. Close your eyes, take some deep breaths and:

6. ‘Burn off’ your anxiety

When you’re anxious, it can sometimes be too hard to perform a technique like deep breathing, as your adrenaline makes it difficult for you to concentrate.

In these moments, try doing something that rids your body of this adrenaline, which could include:

• Chores that need a lot of energy to complete
• High intensity exercise
• Dancing around the house to loud music
• Any aerobic exercise
• Go outside and get some fresh air

It’s important to try and ‘release’ the anxiety you’re feeling. These activities can calm your brain and body, helping you to focus and think rationally. If doing something physical isn’t working, try writing your anxiety away. An anxiety journal can help get negative thoughts out of you head or be used as a way to think clearly about how you’re going to remain calm once you’ve finished writing.

7. Question and challenge your thoughts

When our mind focuses on these types of unhelpful and irrational thoughts, rather than being rational and healthy, this causes anxiety.

A useful technique to help calm anxiety is to learn how to pause and move past these destructive thoughts, before they have a chance to take hold. Learning this technique may take some practice but it's a strategy that's well worth mastering.

When you feel yourself having an unhealthy thought, pause and really think about the following:

• How is this thought going to make me feel?
• Is it a fact or an opinion?
• Is it a rational or irrational thought?
• What are other outcomes to think about?

You may find it difficult to do this technique automatically at first. So try keeping a journal in the evenings, where you jot down any unhealthy thoughts you had during that day which made you feel anxious. Take the time to consider these thoughts and answer the questions above. By practising this, you'll then start to feel able to pause and move past unhelpful thoughts as you have them.

8. Share your feelings

The saying goes that a problem shared is a problem halved. You might be surprised at how effective opening up to people about your feelings can be. They can offer you some valuable perspective.

The idea of opening up can feel even more daunting when it isn’t a friend or a family member, for example, in your workplace. Take a measured approach when speaking to your boss about your mental health, and remember you’re potentially helping other people in your office by being brave enough to speak up.

9. Listen to some music

Science has shown how music can be great for offering an immediate and effective means of calming yourself down. A study in the journalPsychoneuroendocrinology found that music can be “considered a means of stress reduction in daily life, especially if it is listened to for the reason of relaxation.”

If you’re able to break away from whatever is causing you anxiety, put on some classical or slow and soft pop - or whatever works for you. This might be especially useful is you're experiencingworkplace anxiety, as you can get back to your desk and switch off with a few minutes of calm music.

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