New to this series? I’m going through the KonMari method from The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Upto clean my house out once and for all! Today I’m tackling my living spaces – scroll down to see the rest of the series!
I’m almost to the end of the whole KonMari journey, and I can hardly believe how much we have gotten rid of. We’ve made somemajor Goodwill donations in the last few months, and it feels so good to clear so much clutter out of our home. Going through everything we own in such a systematic way was a really great way for me to take a good hard look at what we’re buying, how we’re decorating our home, and get some inspiration for where we want to go. I was shocked at how manyideas I got for projects and other things just through the process of cleaning out our home!
This post is all about tackling the living spaces in our home – the living room, bedrooms, and extra rooms. I’ll admit, we aren’t quite finished with this category yet…we currently have Corey’s dad staying with us for a while, so I haven’t ventured into the guest room to clear it out. The garage and workshop also haven’t been cleared out but they’re both high on our priority list for this summer, so they’ll get done soon!
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Decluttering Living Spaces With the Konmari Method
Here are my reflections and tips from KonMari-izing our bedrooms and living spaces:
I learned to be brutal with ourdecor.
We have so many random decorative items that we’ve had for years and I’ve kept around just because I didn’t want to leave a blank space. But through this process, I learned how to let go of things that I didn’t absolutely love anymore and I’m so glad I did! Now, instead of feeling like I don’t have any room for the pretty pieces I see when I’m out shopping, I can actually start looking for things to replace what we’ve gotten rid of. It’s a good feeling!
As a result of the first lesson, I also learned to embrace white space.
Sometimes you don’t need a pretty tchotchke on every surface for your home to feel complete. Sometimes leaving it blank, giving space for your eyes to rest, and keeping things minimal is just as impactful, if not more. This is a lesson I’ve known for a long time but haven’t ever been good about following through on – purging our home of all of this clutter was a great way for me to practice this lesson in a practical way!
I learned to stop ignoring the little annoyances that have become invisible.
Things like the random basket ofjunk Corey has had sitting next to our bed for years. And the toys that had spilled out of Jackson’s baskets and were scattered under the couch and entry table. And the vases I have kept in our room since before we even moved into the house that I don’t actually even like. There’s something about reducing the amount of stuff in your home that makes you suddenly see the clutter and other things you don’t like that you’ve been glossing over all this time. I’m so much better about keeping our living spaces neat and picked up now that I’ve cleared them out and there’s actually space for everything again!
I learned that less is more when it comes to toys.
Corey and I have always been pretty conservative when it comes to buying toys for Jackson, but our families aren’t so careful. Even though we clear out extra toys pretty regularly, he still has an appalling amount of toys that are floating around our house – most of which henever plays with. I waited until he was napping one day and went to town on all of the toys in the living room. Within just a few minutes I had a trash bag about half-full of toys to donate, and he hasn’t even noticed that they’re gone! It was a little harder to get to the toys in his room, but I just had Corey occupy him downstairs while I cleaned out the toys in his room. We have one last step to go through when we clean the garage up (he has a lot of toys in there!) and then we’ll be done! I’m finding that he doesn’t miss any of the toys I’ve cleared out so far, and it’s easier for him to find the toys he does want to play with!
Want to see another category? Click around below to see all of the posts in the Konmari organization method series!
Here are all of the posts in my Konmari Method Series:
Organizing Our Clothes
Decluttering Books with the Konmari Method
Organizing the Kitchen and Bathrooms
Organizing Important Papers
Organizing Sentimental Items
Checking In: One Year Later With the Konmari Method
I know I’ve said this a time or seven since this whole project started, but let me just emphasize again howgood it feels to clear ourhome of all of this clutter! I still feel like we have a lot more purging that we could do, but I’m married to a hoarder so this has been a good way for us to learn how to compromise and how to come to a happy medium when it comes to things that we hold on tojust in case and the things we get rid of. Now that I’ve started on this, I feel like over the next several months I will likely continue to toss little things here and there until we reach that perfect point where we havejust enough stuff.
What’s the dynamic like in your home? Are you and your spouse tossers or hoarders?
It is with some chagrin that I see Marie Kondo making international news with the bombshell that she's pretty much stopped tidying at home since the birth of her third child: “Up until now, I was a professional tidier, so I did my best to keep my home tidy at all times,” she told the Washington Post.
But how long the KonMari Method takes depends on the amount of stuff you own—cleaning your space could take you one weekend or it could take one month. That's why the first step is simply committing to a tidy house. Don't get discouraged if the process takes longer than a day!
The KonMari Method teaches organization by category: clothing, books, papers, komono (miscellaneous items, like home decor, makeup, and kitchen utensils), and sentimental items. It's also necessary to organize in this order. Your purge should also follow this order to help you move along in the process.
The Decluttering Rule of 5 is a focused approach that simplifies the decision-making process when clearing out unused and unwanted items. It lets you evaluate whether you've used an item within the last five years. If not, it's likely you won't need it going forward.
Simply put, the Tidy Toss Method is an easy organisation method created by professional organiser and influencer, Holly Blakey (@breathing. room. home) and involves assigning all your small, loose wardrobe items – think swimwear, hats and gloves– a dedicated home within a basket or container.
If you've been following Kondo for awhile, you may have noticed that she always seems to be wearing something white. We mean, like, always. That's a calculated choice as part of her brand and image, as she told The New Yorker. It makes sense.
Marie Kondo famously loves mess. But she's lost interest in cleaning it up. Kondo, the Japanese businesswoman who established herself as a tidying-up mogul with books and Netflix series, is now a mother of three – and discovered that there's more to life than keeping a house perfectly clean and compartmentalized.
The most important rule to set before you even begin to purge items is to make a sincere effort to bring less stuff in. There's no point in putting forth the effort to declutter if you undo all your progress by buying more stuff.
First, designate a day to organizing your home.Then, tackle each problem area for a set amount of time, whether 30 minutes, an hour, or more or less. By dedicating a specific time to an area, you put the finish line in sight. Once your timer goes off, put away whatever is left, and move on to the next area.
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing explores how putting your space in order causes “correspondingly dramatic changes in lifestyle and perspective.” Marie Kondo, the author, recommends that you defy conventional wisdom and start by discarding and only then thoroughly ...
Before welcoming her third child, Marie said she was a professional tidier who tried to maintain order in her home at all times. Now, however, she is more focused on spending time with her young family. 'I have kind of given up on that, in a good way for me. ' Marie Kondo says.
“Shintoism, for me, is not particularly a religion in my life, but it is a natural habit in our daily life,” Kondo told a reddit user in 2015. “Shintoism, for Japanese people, is not the same religious feeling as a lot of American people might feel, but is pretty much blended into our daily lifestyle or habits.”
In Japan, these objects are called komono, or miscellaneous items, and it's common to struggle with keeping them organized. That's why Marie Kondo recommends designating a day to organize your komono in one go, give your objects final destinations and take back control.
The idea is pretty simple: Just focus on clearing up the following 5 categories of things—and nothing else: Trash, laundry, dishes, things that have a place, and things that don't have a place.
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