Imagine losing your child, only to find them immortalized in fragments of home videos—a bittersweet reminder of what once was. This is the heart-wrenching reality filmmaker Ross McElwee confronts in his latest documentary, Remake. But here’s where it gets even more profound: McElwee doesn’t just mourn; he dissects the very nature of memory, legacy, and the power of the camera to both preserve and distort life itself. Remake isn’t just a grief memoir—it’s a bold, self-reflective exploration of how art, time, and loss collide.
Before smartphones turned us all into amateur filmmakers, home movies were rare, labor-intensive treasures. They were often clumsily shot and edited, yet they carried a weighty permanence. Tapes were labeled, stored, and rewatched, becoming communal artifacts. For McElwee, these films were more than just memories; they were crafted with the same care as his professional documentaries. But as an artist whose work blurs the line between private and public, his personal archives inevitably become part of his artistic legacy. In Remake, that line vanishes entirely, as McElwee grapples with the footage of his late son, Adrian, who died at 27 in 2016 amid America’s opioid crisis.
Adrian was a vibrant presence in McElwee’s 2009 film Photographic Memory, which explored the growing divide between father and son. Adrian, an aspiring filmmaker himself, was enamored with technology—something McElwee, who bemoaned his son’s ‘constant state of technical overload,’ struggled to embrace. Now, McElwee revisits this relationship through a lens of loss, sifting through decades of footage to understand what it reveals—and conceals—about Adrian’s life. The result is a Venice Film Festival standout that’s as emotionally raw as it is intellectually provocative.
But Remake isn’t just about grief. It’s also a wry commentary on the film industry, as McElwee finds himself at the center of a bizarre saga: producers want to remake his 1985 documentary Sherman’s March into a dramatic series. What starts as a quirky industry satire—with the project morphing from film to TV to streaming—becomes a mirror to McElwee’s own fears about legacy. At 78, he’s forced to confront what his life’s work will mean when he’s gone. And this is the part most people miss: the film’s dual narratives—one deeply personal, the other absurdly professional—converge to ask how much control any artist truly has over their legacy.
Sherman’s March was a quirky, introspective masterpiece, blending humor with existential angst. Watching it be reshaped into something unrecognizable is a stark ‘death of the author’ moment for McElwee. Yet, it also prompts a moral question: How ethical is it to preserve people in time, especially when they can no longer consent to their own portrayal? This dilemma is painfully evident in McElwee’s interviews with his friend Charleen Swansea. Footage from Sherman’s March shows her as a fiery, charismatic young woman, while recent clips reveal a woman grappling with dementia, barely recognizing her former self. Is this preservation a gift or a violation?
McElwee’s collaboration with editor Joe Bini—known for his work with Lynne Ramsay and Andrea Arnold—elevates Remake into a kaleidoscope of old and new footage. The film’s structure mimics the fluidity of memory, blending Adrian’s childhood whimsy with his later struggles as an addict. It’s a parent’s worst nightmare: watching their child’s decline in slow motion, wondering where it all went wrong. Adrian’s own diaristic films offer glimpses McElwee’s camera never captured, reminding us that even the most intimate portraits are filtered through the filmmaker’s gaze.
Remake is a masterpiece of clarity amidst chaos, a film that’s both a home movie and a philosophical treatise. It’s angry, funny, and achingly confused—much like grief itself. But here’s the controversial question: Does McElwee’s relentless documentation of his son’s life honor Adrian, or does it exploit his memory? And what does it mean to turn personal tragedy into public art? Let’s discuss—because this is one film that demands more than just watching.