Mood:, to be with you right now.
Okay that's nice!
Before proceeding further you can just say Cool maybe we should talk more often then! (Since I'm one).
First know him and then proceed!
Don't go by face ever! Trust me on this!
It'll be good for you!
Tell her that she should aim better.
Seriously though, if she really misses you, she should do something to be with you so she doesn't miss you. It's really that easy, if you stop playing all the games. What she’s doing is trying to get control of a situation, which is manipulative and dumb.
It gets REALLY REALLY annoyed when someone says this phrase, and they tend to say it over and over. It gets cringey.
Unless there is a really true, serious reason that they miss me that makes sense, it’s unnecessary and a red flag.
I’d question them on why they miss you!?!? Instead of giving them the answer they want.
If it's a significant other saying this, I would put in some effort to cheer her up, take her on a drive..a movie together, or just spend a little bit more time with her chit-chatting - before I leave. If I have already left and it's almost time to get back, I would plan some romantic getaways with her.
If it's my relative/cousins, I would tell them the same that I miss them and make sure I visit them when I am nearby.
If it’s my office colleagues, I would be happy to hear that and say I missed you folks too and take them all out for Chai during the break.
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Thank you ….When someone texts you “I miss you” it's mostly out of love and they wish a “I miss you too” in reply. So if you missed that person, please tell them that you did, probably that's what they wanted to hear. But in case if you didn't really missed the person then don't just lie by saying “I miss you too”, instead tell them “that's very sweet of you” or just ask them that what makes them miss you and then continue the conversation the way you want.
She wants to hear, “I miss you too!” Do NOT say this unless it’s true. The biggest hazard is that she can infer you feel as strongly as she does. If you don’t, the eventual consequences will be disastrous. She will feel that you led her on because you said it back, even though your level of missing wasn’t as deep as her.
If you can honestly say, “I miss you too” great. Do that. You will make her happy, and maybe move things forward on a romantic path. My best wishes and good luck to you both.
Otherwise, you have options. You can take it as if she said “I’m homesick” and give her a low-key pep talk, either focusing on how things will go back to normal someday, or the positive aspects of wherever she is.
“I miss you.”
“That’s sweet of you to say, but you’ve got so much going on over there! Have you gone for a walk in the (interesting area) or tried the (safely accessible local food) yet?”
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This isn’t ideal, but it’s a useful way to deflect a talk about feelings. I’m speaking as the least romantic person I know. I avoided a lot of talks about feelings. ;)
Do you want to add a word or two?....
Depends how you feel about the other person, although I don’t agree that being rude to them because you don’t care about them is an acceptable response. What do you want to achieve by your reply?? The options are few and simple;
“I miss you too, let’s get together sometime soon, here’s a link to my online calendar so you can let me know when you’re free”
“I miss you too, let’s meet for coffee sometime”. (no definite effort made to actually achieve that, you’re not that bothered but you’re willing to meet up if they want to.
If you can’t be clever or kind at least be funny; “Ooh - I never knew I had a Fan Club!” then continue by just being polite & civilised with the person who misses you.
You don’t have to be rude to anyone whether you’re attracted to them or not.
Whatever you do, be as polite and honest as possible. Don’t mislead someone. If you don’t know what to say, don’t say anything at all. I typically go with something along the lines of “Thanks, I appreciate you letting me know I’m being thought of.”
Aww...Give a hug and a kiss…and if you are not with the person just say what you miss about them or ,…I cannot wait to see you.
It all depends on how you feel about the person saying it.
If you feel same way, you can say “I MISS YOU MORE”
Your Comments……
Does it mean that she really misses you ?
Hard to say, it largely depends on the guy. Most usually don’t say something like that on a normal basis, and, it depends on exactly what they are missing.
Usually when I say “I miss you” to someone, it means that I miss their smile, their laughter, their words, their presence in my life. It means that they meant something to me. I don’t say that to everyone. I think most men find it hard to put their feelings into words, so unless the guy is a player, or a total douche, I think I would lean towards believing that. You could always smile, and ask what they miss if you think you need to call them on their bluff“truth –or –dare “.
Some people are not comfortable using certain phrases that relay affection because they believe it makes them sound needy.
Many guys especially want to appear strong and confident to whatever girls they happen to admire.
If there is no other indication that he has lost interest in you, but you still wonder whether he misses you, it’s ok to ask.
And, if he’s willing to listen, it’s 100% ok for you to let him know that you like to hear that your presence is important to him. He should be made aware that his reassurance is a happy reminder to you that he likes you and wants to be close to you. That’s not neediness. It is a necessary communication of mutual appreciation when two souls are involved in a relationship.
That said, it is also good to avoid expectation that others will automatically respond in kind to certain expressions of love that are inherently meaningful to you.
I’ll hold you in my heart, till I can hold you in my arms.
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